I'm currently using a Huco pump and find it works well. I have a relay, fused connection and inertia switch ready to fit but Covid has meant I've had little chance to get to the car (it's in the south of France). I'm like you as regards electrical things, in that I need a diagram to work from and clear instructions...

Here is my take on your questions; I'm sure others will be along to correct and/or flesh out my replies..
- What wire gauge should I be using for this? And does colour matter?
The Huco pump comes with two 'tails', a positive (red) and negative (black). Wire gauge is quite light, so current draw is not excessive. I'd stick with the same colours to avoid confusion. Vehicle Wiring Products are an excellent source of wiring consumables including cable (
https://www.vehiclewiringproducts.co.uk/). I'd definitely use thin wall cable, and you'd probably get away with 1mm/16.5 amp cable, but I'd probably use 2mm/25 amp to be on the safe side. You may need heavier gauge cable to connect to battery and/or relay, but others can advise on this.
- Will I need a fuse if I'm going to be using an inertia switch? If yes, should the fuse be in the fuse box?
You will need a fuse, but I believe an inline fuse on the lead to the battery will be fine. Again, I am happy to stand corrected on this.
- Will I need a relay?
Yes.
- Is it important to use an inline filter before the pump? I already have one after the pump, before the carb
I'd recommend using a filter before the pump. If so you may be able to dispense with the filter between pump and carb, but I don't think that double filtration will harm anything.
- Where should I take the 12V power from?
I've attached a wiring diagram which hopefully will help. I had to do this for myself, to ensure I understood what I was doing (will be doing...) You need a switchable 12v source that is energised by the ignition. I chose the ballast resistor, but any circuit which is activated by the ignition being switched on is fine.
- What electrical connections are best to use? Spade connectors?
Insulated spade connectors (6.3 mm) of a size to suit the cable you are using. The ones that have heat shrink pre-applied are very good. VWP have them. For a tidy looking job, use heat shrink on all cable runs.