Success! The gearbox and engine are now clamped up together, with 60 lb/ft of torque holding them together (see picture #1). It would have been impossible without Guy's excellent little trick, and even then it took 2 of us and a fair bit of huffing and puffing to get it all together.
Having assembled the two components I then had to partially dissassemble the two and separate them by about 10mm as I realised that the two top allen bolts in picture #2 would not allow the gearbox to be fully tightened to the engine. When Stanwood assembled the block they had used a plain washer and a spring washer to fix the end plate to the block. The extra thickness of a plain washer was enough to keep the mating faces of bell housing and motor apart. Picture #2 shows the very small amount of clearance left after the plain washer was removed and the gearbox fully bolted up. You can just slide a 0.4mm feeler gauge between the allen bolt and bell housing, it's that tight. Very glad I spotted that - it could have had unpleasant repercussions if I hadn't.
Next thing I tried was offering the Auto Ricambi starter motor up for a trial fit, and again things weren't entirely straightforward. The middle mounting point has a dowel fitted in the bell housing, and no corresponding recess in the starter motor mounting flange. I tentatively tried to remove the dowel, but it's fastened good and proper. So the starter motor flange will need a recess machining to cater for the dowel. It should be possible with the flange fitted to the starter, but if the flange can be removed without too much difficulty, that would probably be the preferred option. Pictures 3 and 4 illustrate the problem.
Despite the annoyance of the starter motor fitting, I'm still well pleased with the day's work. Some genuine progress, I think.